Add IInternal/PublicDisposableService (#1696)

* Add IInternal/PublicDisposableService

Plugins are exposed interfaces that are not inherited from
`IDisposable`, but services implementing plugin interfaces often
implement `IDisposable`. Some plugins may try to call
`IDisposable.Dispose` on everything provided, and it also is possible to
use `using` clause too eagerly while working on Dalamud itself, such as
writing `using var smth = await Service<SomeService>.GetAsync();`. Such
behaviors often lead to a difficult-to-debug errors, and making those
services either not an `IDisposable` or making `IDisposable.Dispose` do
nothing if the object has been loaded would prevent such errors. As
`ServiceManager` must be the only class dealing with construction and
disposal of services, `IInternalDisposableService` has been added to
limit who can dispose the object. `IPublicDisposableService` also has
been added to classes that can be constructed and accessed directly by
plugins; for those, `Dispose` will be ignored if the instance is a
service instance, and only `DisposeService` will respond.

In addition, `DalamudPluginInterface` and `UiBuilder` also have been
changed so that their `IDisposable.Dispose` no longer respond, and
instead, internal functions have been added to only allow disposal from
Dalamud.

* Cleanup

* Postmerge fixes

* More explanation on RunOnFrameworkThread(ClearHooks)

* Mark ReliableFileStorage public ctor obsolete

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Co-authored-by: goat <16760685+goaaats@users.noreply.github.com>

Dalamud/Hooking/WndProcHook/WndProcHookManager.cs

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ namespace Dalamud.Hooking.WndProcHook;
 /// Manages WndProc hooks for game main window and extra ImGui viewport windows.
 /// </summary>
 [ServiceManager.BlockingEarlyLoadedService]
-internal sealed class WndProcHookManager : IServiceType, IDisposable
+internal sealed class WndProcHookManager : IInternalDisposableService
 {
     private static readonly ModuleLog Log = new(nameof(WndProcHookManager));
 
@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ internal sealed class WndProcHookManager : IServiceType, IDisposable
     public event WndProcEventDelegate? PostWndProc;
 
     /// <inheritdoc/>
-    public void Dispose()
+    void IInternalDisposableService.DisposeService()
     {
         if (this.dispatchMessageWHook.IsDisposed)
             return;